Our School

May 2016 

In July 2011 I sat outside my boys primary school. I was waiting for them to finish. It was their last day. They had been there 4 years, since I had adopted them. I looked at each of the doors leading from the class rooms. Each of the doors opened sad and unhappy memories. There were some good memories, but I couldn’t remember them that day. I felt overwhelming loneliness sat there. The boys came out, we felt no sadness that they were leaving. We went home, and got on with the next chapter of lives.
Tomorrow is their last day again. They finish high school. I am going to struggle. The boys will be fine, they are ready for their next chapter. I feel a sense of over whelming pride. Despite advice against a mainstream school, they have succeeded. They have their issues, my god, they have had their issues! They have challenged the professionals to their core. Each and everyone of the staff has stood by my children. They have challenged them. They have cried with them, and for them. They have laughed with them (sometimes hysterically!). They have taught my children that adults can be trusted, and can be reliable. My children have seen that life is rough, blooming rough sometimes, but the adults will stand by them. The staff have shown my children they will respect them and they will understand them. They have not restrained them, hurt them or scared them. They have been consistent and compassionate. They have empathised and sympathised.

Thank you for giving us so many joyous, proud and inspiring memories. We are ready for the next bit (even if I will be in an emotional heap – at least allow me that!). Thank you from me, and especially, from them.



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  1. This is such a sweet post and a testament to those who raise children or who work with them. I was a daycare provider for 13 years and I can say that each child challenges us to help them become better and when they succeed we feel great value in our job well done. #ThatFridayLinky

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  2. Great post, so many teachers go above and beyond for their students, I know several teachers and they work so hard and care so much, but get such a bad rep in the press. It sounds like you had a great school and great teachers for them. Well done and good luck on the next chapter! #blogstravaganza

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  3. I’m so glad your boys found the help and support they needed at their secondary schools. My husband was a teacher before he became a saver of lives. He specialised in inclusion and strived to help children who had previously suffered nothing but bad experiences where adults were concerned. For this reason I know only too well what the right support can mean to a child. It’s great that you are sharing this petition and raising awareness, too often issues like this are brushed under the carpet. Thanks so much for linking up to #Blogstravaganza, hope to see you again next week xx

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